I have always found myself immersed in both the technical and creative aspects of life, and when I discovered Shibari rope bondage, I was delighted to have found a medium that allowed me to meld together those two fields in such a unique way. I identify more with the bottoming aspects of rope and BDSM, but I can occasionally be found self-tying or co-topping.

As a photographer, I love the way bondage and other elements of BDSM to allow me to capture raw emotion and energy exchanged between top and bottom.

My kinks include:

bondage (rope bondage especially, but I also like other methods of restraint such as plastic wrap, leather straps, duct tape, etc.), breath play, boot play, wet & messy/sploshing, bare handed spanking, caning, rough body play, primal play, hair pulling, cock worship, biting, spit and other body fluids, digging my nails into soft skin.

I also enjoy long, sloppy makeouts, dry humping & scissoring, bouncing boobs, and deep conversation.

My anti-kinks are (in no particular order):

Using inbox as a verb, people who tear others down out of jealousy or their own insecurities, arrogance, overconfidence, Doms/tops who don't value their sub’s/bottom’s input or encourage them to speak their minds, gaslighting, victim blaming, people who can't admit when they've made a mistake, half-assed apologies, people who knowingly and willingly "take liberties" or ignore what has been negotiated, bottoms/subs that expect doms/tops to be mind readers, bottoms/subs that aren't willing to accept shared responsibility when things go wrong.